Mutuality, and the courage to be known.
Seventy three days on the relationships nobody teaches you how to keep.
The hook
Nobody is obliged to stay. That is what makes it love.
Adult friendship is the only close relationship with no ceremony, no contract and no agreed way to repair it. So it fades instead, and we call that life.
What it is
Seventy three guided days on the friendships that shaped you: the fade, the ledger you keep quietly, the version of yourself you show, the ones you are still grieving, and the chosen family you built.
Why it is different
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It takes friendship seriously as an attachment, not as a social calendar.
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It gives you language for the fade — the most common ending, and the one nobody has words for.
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It asks about your part, not theirs. That is the only part you can move.
Who it is for
Anyone with a full group chat and an empty calendar. Anyone who moved cities, had a baby, left a job, and quietly lost people.
Where this goes next
NÓS · The Real Friends Game takes it to the table with your circle, with depth dots so a new mix of people can start gentle and earn their way down. The Life Patterns Journal connects it to the rest of your life.
Specs · Paperback · 148 × 210 mm · 134 pages
