Intimacy without self abandonment.
Seventy three days on love, and on your part in it.
The hook
Most relationship advice asks you to communicate better. Almost none of it asks the harder question: what do you do, reliably, when you feel unsafe with the person you love? Withdraw, appease, sharpen, perform, keep score?
That move is yours. It arrived long before this relationship did. And it is the only part of the two of you that you can change on your own.
What it is
Seventy three days that trace the relationship you are in back through the relationships that taught you how to be in one, including the timeline of your own love story. Five movements, five minutes a day.
Why it is different
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It is a solo journal about a shared thing, which means it works whether or not your partner is interested. That is rarer, and more useful, than it sounds.
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It goes to origins. Not communication tips: where you learnt that closeness had a price.
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It pairs with a deck, so private work becomes a conversation when you are ready.
Who it is for
Someone who loves their person and keeps hitting the same wall. Someone rebuilding after a rupture. Someone who wants to arrive at their next relationship differently.
Where this goes next
NÓS · The Right Love Game is the same five movements with your partner across the table, 105 cards, starting with how you began. Many people keep the journal and the deck in the same week: a page alone, a card together.
Specs · Paperback · 148 × 210 mm · 158 pages
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